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Techdivine Creative Services celebrates its 250 Plus Posts – Thank You All

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“PRESS” THIS

Posted by AnanthV | Posted in advertising, Bloggers Zone, career, City News, creative writer, creative writing, Education & Learning, India, life, people, Popular Web blogs & links, PRESS, print media, Reading, social bookmarking, social media marketing, Social Media Quotient, Social Networking Sites (SNS), society, technology, The Legends, twitter, Work Life, world, writing | Posted on 07-06-2010

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PRESS evolving to ‘Press this’: In India

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Press Evolution:Newspaper

By press in common parlance we usually refer to Printing press, but in journalistic & mass communication terminology, we mean print media such as newspapers, periodicals, magazines, news agencies, press syndicates and any such printed material.

The idea behind forming a press in terms of newspapers and similar related agencies has been to share public information, from the nation or the people themselves and create a powerful vehicle of expressions and information. Today, newspapers have evolved in terms of not only content but also the way it is presented to the mass across countries.

From the time of Maharajas (Kings) and before the period of Christ, we can see wall carvings, signs and stone art symbols across cultures and religions. Kings like Ashoka and Mughal emperors have made powerful use of these media for ages to keep the public informed and educated.

As wall carvings went to the next level of stone and sculptures with writings to newsletters  as manuscripts, the development of the printing press was gradually taking place. Soon enough India found its first official newspaper courtesy of James Augustus Hickey in the form of Bengal Gazette in the year 1780.

The first printing press was established in Mumbai in 1674, second in Madras and third in Calcutta in 1779. Hickey’s Bengal Gazette also known as the Calcutta General Advertiser began on 29th January 1780. It was described beautifully as a ‘weekly political and commercial paper open to all parties but influenced by none’

The first two decades of the 19th century saw rigid control of the Press by Lords Wellesley and Warren Hastings. In-spite of this, slowly the Indian readers were soon enough exposed to a very large number of printing houses in the form of newspapers and newsletters across Mumbai, Calcutta & Madras in the form of Darpan, Dig Darshan, Samachar, Friend of India etc.

During this period came the father of the Press industry revolution who raised the need, awareness and to give what the press very truly deserved, “the freedom of the press”, he was none other than Raja Ram Mohan Roy.

Soon enough there was established the first truly owned Indian newspaper by Gangadhar Bhattacharya which was also called as the Bengal Gazette. Rapid developments across languages soon evolved in the form of print press in Hindi, Marathi, Urdu, Gujrati, Tamil, Malayalam, Assamese, Punjabi in the later part of 1850’s. As another decade moved in with the war of independence breaking in, the press became more prominent, more popular and a much needed power tool for information and education for people in general.

When we look into the advantages behind a newspaper and such other print media, even if there is low subscription or reach in terms of actual sale of the IP of newspapers, magazine, newsletters etc. the readership finally goes high. Especially in a country like India where there is still a huge number of people who are not literate, the news spreads in the form of sharing information from person to person. So the power of PRESS is a revolution on it’s own.

Over decades as the most famous and influential newspapers such as Bande Mataram, Kesari, Maratha, Free Press Journal, Madras Standard, Bombay Chronicle etc kept creating waves, so were prominent influencer’s like the great Mahatma Gandhi, Raja Ram Mohan Roy, Bal Gangadhar Tilak, Kasturi Ranga Iyengar etc associations with it.

The support for this medium of education and information became larger than life. Soon enough the influence to influence increased with technology contributing and forming a major role into the digital revolution of information sharing.

Today with millions of users across globally, India ranks high amongst users of internet and stands 2nd across Asia and with more adding up every day.

One of the most popular forms of using press or print information across India today is through blogs and micro blogs. No wonder we find more and more newspapers and magazines going ‘online’ and being a part of the larger revolution of the ‘spot content generation & sharing era’.

Today press has taken a larger role of not only entertaining and educating but also of rapidly evolving with the passage of time. We will soon be seeing a lot more of micro blogging platforms and blogs presenting the power of Press to us.

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Happy 3rd Anniversary to “Creative Writing Blog”

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Dear Friends,

This month marks our 3rd Anniversary of the Creative Writers blog.


Creative Writers Blog

Creative Writing

The journey began with the first publication and the Times of India interview and coverage of the coffee table poetry bookExpressions“, but it was only by end 2008 that we got an idea to get other writers too to add their ideas, experiences and stories and share them in such a large platform.

As the readers and comments kept increasing, with more inputs, critique, suggestions from all of you, we added interactivity, free registrations for comments, Premium memberships and so on to the creative writer blog.

Today, we proudly stand at 183 –Posts, 973 Comments with 11 Authors and scores of Categories under varied subjects of “Technology, Career, Education, Gadgets, Life, Passion, People, Marketing, Online Media, Art, Legends, Freebies, Social Media Marketing……..

We sincerely THANK all our dear readers and of course our wonderful authors who have contributed their time and skills to us and have been a part of the Creative Writing family.

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Open Office

Posted by anjeneyan | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 05-11-2009

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Few Blog Posts from the past: Back on Our Dear Readers Demand:

Year:2008

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Tomorrow onwards I start working in an open office. During renovation, the old traditional layout is being changed from a cabin (large rooms equal to or bigger than a living room) to medium sized cubicles and work stations. It looks impressive since the office is renovated. But it is only partially complete and the full looks with atrium and all other things would get ready in the next few months. So the full impact would be felt when the office is fully renovated. It would be a transformation worthy of notice-perhaps equivalent to an expensive cosmetic corporate surgery.

The first feature that I observe is that the Personal Computer occupies the pride of position, It is kept smack in the middle of the working area and the chair faces it. It seems as though the main function of most employees is staring hard at the computer almost the entire day. It is perhaps equivalent to keeping a note counting machine on every banker’s table as every banker ultimately deals with money. My belief is that computer is one of the tools we use in the course of our work. It could be a vital tool or an accessory (like a belt or a tie) depending on the individual and his position in the hierarchy. But that seems to be the accepted concept today. I am reminded of the cattle shed in some parts of Mumbai (Tabela in local language) where the cattle is tied and faces a trough containing the feed. Unlike human beings they are not let out as there is no space for grazing in Mumbai.

The second striking aspect is the positioning. The consultant informed us that the concept is that there should not be eye contact from one work station to another. This reinforces the concept that though other human beings are close by, they are mainly distraction to be avoided. So though they are visible and audible, ignore them and ensure that they are able to ignore you. So no loud conversation to spouse on buying evening’s requirement (she would come late, so pick up children, and keep dhal ready etc.), mouthing childish and sweet words or threatening words to growing and troublesome kids (do Maths home work beta, is the Hindi homework over, didn’t I tell you to…), romance within or outside office.

The third striking aspect is the mobile phone with varying ring tones. I recall a senior executive well past retirement age having the ring tone of Dhoom going off when he was making a serious point at an important meeting. They can be quite annoying. When someone else has a ringtone identical to yours, then you could get irritated thinking how could he have the same ring tone. So what would result after few days of annoyance is more subdued ring tone and many executives walking up and down the corridor murmuring into the telephone looking serious and sometimes focused clearly on domestic issues ( mama, I told you it is not possible this week….., did the plumber come? has the maid come and cleaned baba’s school dress?)

The fourth would be learning new techniques on seeming busy on important assignments while doing nothing. But that perhaps would not be difficult to any Indian working person.

Now, I wonder who invented work station. The word “work station” seems to give an impression of a temporary halting place – like railway station- and not a place where we spent a large portion of our waking time. It sounds like a station for working and nothing more. Perhaps it is an American usage where most things are impersonal – even family relationships. Every child is expected to have a separate room. A parent cannot go into his grown up children’s room without permission. So places without privacy are perhaps temporary habitats by their standards.

So off tomorrow to the new working station. Let me see how all of us working there fare. My hunch is that some of my colleagues could complain and look back to the glorious past and identify the fault lines loudly.

Open Office – Part2

It is nearly a year since I wrote the last blog. During that time, I visited Bhutan. It is an out of the way place for Indian tourists. I enjoyed it. My wife told me recently that she now appreciated the stillness of some of the places we visited in Bhutan. If anyone is interested to know more, do write to me. I have kept a diary of this visit and good photos also. If you enjoy chill climate in summer, seeing deep valleys, winding roads, waterfalls etc. then this is the place. It is not that expensive also.

Bhutan waterfall

My grandson put in 11 more eventful months to his 9 months of existence. The growth in the first three years of existence is said to be more that what happens in thirty years of existence in the later part of human life. So he started walking, communicating, speaking few words and being utterly mischievous. He has a lovely smile, which I am sure will break the hearts of many maidens who are yet to be born. He gave us a new perspective to life and living.

The open office grew on me. I became comfortable listening to the daily menu communicated by my office neighbor to the cook. I came to know the calling tunes of most colleagues. The older the person, the more dashing is the caller tune. Older persons do not change caller tune. The younger generation love change and that includes caller tunes also.

Most telephone conversations are conducted in loud tones. Except when confidential calls come, then everyone is capable of whispering on phone. The difficulty arises in concentrating on reading lengthy documents when the atmosphere around resembles a railway station. Then I remember Hindu philosophy which expects us to concentrate irrespective what the outside world resembles.

Share market crashed in an unbelievable manner. Many of us saw lot of paper wealth being extinguished on a daily basis. There is a muted recovery now. None of us are confident this would sustain or reach the old heights. Still some rise in Sensex is comforting.

What are most disturbing are job losses. For the first time in my 33 years of working life, I am seeing middle and junior level officers and executives losing jobs due to economic down turn. Management graduates are not getting placements even when they belong to good or great Institutions. This has never happened in the past. The situation in non metros is said to be equally bad. Small and medium enterprises are having great difficulties in surviving. I am not sure what is the level of job losses or erosion, but it is bound to be significant.

I had a lingering suspicion about IT related jobs as I could not fathom how far an average IT engineer would travel in his career. As a person coming from administrative side of business, I felt they would plateau out fast. Today’s scenario seems to confirm my belief that an IT person needs to contribute significantly to business to progress beyond the Rs. 25/30 lacs hurdle. Am I right? I would love some feedback on this rather instinctive rather than informed view.

USA has lost its charm for many Indians. The risk of being unemployed in a foreign country is frightening. India at least offers some kind of security within the bosom of the family or its extended version. Any way we are used to misery, somehow we will pull on. Would a father consider giving a qualified girl based in India to an IT bridegroom based in USA today without some qualms? Hard to say.

Why did I absent myself from blogs? Well, the creative urge dried up. I could not dream of something to write. I started and then left it midway. Today I decided I will scrawl something. I will be encouraged if I get 3 comments or criticisms or feedback. Does a person write for own satisfaction or for someone else to read, appreciate/criticise? I think both.

So, what do you say?

Let me know your views on the same

Anjeneyan

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My Trip to Aurangabad- The City Of Gates

Posted by aduadi | Posted in travel, young guns section, Young Talents Zone | Posted on 21-10-2009

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The City Of Gates

 

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I vigorously waved my hands at my parents outside the tinted windows of the luxury bus. They enthusiastically waved back, though they were looking as if they were missing me already. The bus sped away, leaving a cloud of smoke in front of the school.

It was 6:00 in the morning, and the whole of Grade Seven were set off to Aurangabad. In this four day trip we would be covering many national heritage sights such as the hand carved and painted caves of Ajanta and Ellora.

We faced our first challenge right away- staying in the bus for our eight hour ride to Aurangabad. Although all my friends were in the bus, I had already started to wonder what I would do. I started to chat with my friend in the neighbouring seat.

As the journey began, our first serving had already begun with warm and soft cheese sandwiches, thick with the fat slices of cheddar cheese. I gobbled it up, thinking we were running late and so we couldn’t stop for breakfast at a restaurant.

I was proved wrong as we stopped nearly an hour later at McDonalds for a bio break. While we were adjusting to these washrooms on the highway, the trip organisers dropped into the restaurant to pick up around fifty wraps and burgers. We knew, and our smiles said it, there was more munching to look forward to during the travel.

They served the wraps first after half an hour. The wraps were soon followed by a choice of vegetarian, non-vegetarian or ‘Jain’ burgers. I took the potato (aloo-tikki) burger, being a vegetarian. I was bloated after eating these heavy and stuffing snacks.

After stopping two more times for water breaks, we entered a restaurant five hours later for lunch. There we enjoyed an Indian buffet lunch. It turned out that we were in Ahmednagar, a huge district only around 120 kilometres away from Aurangabad. ‘Just around three more hours’, I told myself.

The bus resumed its journey to Aurangabad. The students, including me that is, were totally freaking out and making a racket enough to give challenge to a sound proof door anywhere in the world. I felt too bad for our dear teachers whose gift for that day would have been all that but a headache, that they would have wished for.

We reached the hotel two hours later. It took almost ten minutes for the teachers to calm the hyper energised students down. The sight of the hotel set us all off. After we entered the hotel in a relatively behaved manner (still looking like grubby gorillas) we were given our luggage and the room leaders had the key handed over to them.

I led my group to the room and inserted the electronic key into the slot. The door opened, giving out an electronic beep. I peeped inside, expecting to see a shabby room that had holes in its splintered wooden flooring and cockroaches in a puny bathroom which didn’t have running water (you should read about my other yearly trips to the rainforests and islands! – Click Here to read Them: Click On the Trips to read them:Trip 1 & Trip 2).

My jaw fell towards the ground. I stared at the luxurious carpeted room with immaculate beds that had the blankets tucked in neatly. A day couch was standing out in front of the soft curtains. I took off my shoes and shuffled my sore feet towards the inviting couch, placed clearly in view of the little LCD television. Tables and drawers were placed under the gigantic mirror. I was happy to see that next to the air-con control panel, there was a button which when you pressed it, it would increase the air-con temperature by two degrees every hour to be eco-friendly. That was when I noticed that the owner was Vithal Venkatesh Kamat, who owned the ORCHID, the world’s most eco-friendly hotel (Ecotel Hotel). I had read his autobiography (Idli, Orchid and Will Power) earlier and had always been inspired and impressed by his ideas.

The bathroom was nowhere close- it was even better than the room. The flawless tiles shone out behind the marble sink. The rest of it was just as good, including the WC, shower and mirror (that never seemed to fog no matter how hot we took our showers).

I immediately reserved one of the beds and placed my day pack on it to mark my territory. I scanned the room and found that there were four drawers in total- just enough for one drawer per person. I assigned a drawer for each of my room-mates, being the room leader, so that our room wouldn’t be messy as we could put all our small belongings in it.

I thought about how here we didn’t even have to share drawers, while in my trip in grade five in my old school we once had six people in the sleeping space meant for three people. The idea was to teach us to adjust & learn to adapt.

I took out my wallet, my watch and a little pouch that I wore, which contained some bubble gum (meant for the bus ride) and my itinerary for the trip so I would know what we would be doing next. I put all these in the drawer and freshened up and changed.

After having a few hot snacks and some boiling and delicious coffee, we assembled in a presentation hall for a PowerPoint presentation on Aurangabad which covered everything we were going to be seeing. I used it to confirm my itinerary.

The PPT presentation lasted two hours, after which we set forth our queries. It was followed by dinner and then, lights out.

I was feeling sleepy because it had been a long day but the sleep didn’t come because I had been sitting down and eating the whole day. I finally gave in to my mystic dreams.

Our room woke up and got ready even before the wake up call. We headed down to breakfast, my face shining because of the sun screen I had generously applied. We munched our breakfast and departed for the Ajanta caves, which was a two and a half hour journey from our hotel. That was barely nothing compared to our journey to the
hotel.

We reached the man made caves on the top of the mountain on time. The caves had been carved and painted more than four hundred years ago. They were rediscovered 190 years ago by Englishmen who were hunting in the forest. The caves had been forgotten by humans and moss and foliage had started to grow on the caves.

I won’t give you too much information as I would like to encourage you to go on a similar trip. Cave ten has been declared the oldest cave. It was also the first one that was rediscovered. The only reason why it’s called cave ten is because the caves are not numbered according to when they were created but by the order they are carved in.

The caves were built between second century BC and sixth century AD- a period of 800 years! From second century BC to second century AD, the Hinayana Buddhist caves were carved and painted. In the Hinayana period, the Buddha was represented by a Bodhi tree, sandals, an empty throne or a stupa. Between second century AD and sixth century AD, the Mahayana Buddhists continued making caves. However, in their paintings and sculptures, they included the image of the Buddha, not just a representation.

Most of the caves were monolithic, meaning that they were made out of a single stone/rock (mono= one | lithic= rock). The acoustics in the caves were amazing- perfect for chanting prayers. There was a thick forest facing the caves, with a serene river flowing in the valley which made it seem very peaceful.

It was boiling there! It must have been just as hot as Mumbai, but the air was terribly still and we were standing still too. Thankfully, I had packed a Chinese hand fan as I had thought about the weather in Aurangabad. I chuckled when I saw a small boy asking his mom whether the hand fan worked with magic as I was moving it extremely fast to cool myself.

The only thing that could have been done much better could be the maintenance. There were people throwing wrappers and plastic bags into the plants and long ago the locals had recklessly scratched their names onto the beautiful paintings. There were also many statues that had broken off due to lack of preservation.

However, the management is trying out a way to let us glimpse at the true magnificence of the images. The archaeological department has found a chemical that will help restore the faded the paintings to their original glow. As the colours were made out of natural dyes, the colours have lasted.

After seeing the magnificent structures, we headed back to the bus for our lunch. I was expecting something like a drink and a sandwich for lunch as we were to have inside the bus. I was surprised when we were served a full three course meal, packed neatly inside a box. I picked up a vegetarian box to find that for starters we had cutlets, for main course we had Biryani, for dessert we had gulab jamun and for snacks we had a cheese sandwich and a fruit. Salt and pepper were also wrapped neatly in tin foil along with disposable cutlery. We were also served chilled drinks.

After the majority had finished their ‘little’ lunch, the shopaholics could go and buy souvenirs from the market. I tagged along, though I wasn’t very keen on shopping. However, I found the methods the shopkeepers used to attract customers to their shops and buy their goods very interesting. I ended up being convinced enough to by some crystals, a set of tea-coasters and a pen stand.

We headed off to the Bibi Ka Maqbara, a copy of the Taj Mahal. The ride was an hour, but no one even noticed the time as they were either occupied by watching the movie that was playing on the television in the bus or chatting with their pals.

The Bibi Ka Maqbara is very similar to the Taj Mahal. It was made by prince Azam Shah, the grandson of Shah Jahan, who built the Taj Mahal. The Bibi Ka Maqbara was built out of Plaster of Paris, while the Taj Mahal is built out of marble, which is why it cost more than 30 million rupees in 1653, which will be much more now. Only the dome of the Bibi Ka Maqbara is made of marble.

There was nothing much to see other than the architecture and its history, especially considering that it started to rain. I praised myself again for remembering to pack an umbrella, under which far too many of my buddies were trying to shelter themselves.

We learnt a few differences between the Bibi Ka Maqbara and the Taj Mahal. For example, the Yamuna River flows behind the Taj, while hilly terrain is found behind the Bibi Ka Maqbara. Then there are the price differences- the Taj cost more than 3 crores, the Bibi Ka Maqbara cost Rs. 665,283 and 7 annas. Of course, there are the contrasts in the materials used- marble for the Taj and Plaster of Paris for the Bibi Ka Maqbara.

After we reached the hotel again, we assembled in the meeting hall after an hour of free time. We were given time to reflect on our impressions of the day and what we learnt. This was followed by dinner and that night, sleep came quite easily, especially because of the cool room and the soft bed.

The morning of the third day was very similar to the previous. After breakfast, we headed out to the Ellora caves, also one hour away from the hotel.

Before the bus could even halt at the car park in the Ellora caves, half a dozen ‘salesmen’ arrived and waited right outside the bus. They offered each of the students things ranging from your name written in a grain of rice to a statue the Buddha.

The Ellora caves were exceedingly beautiful. There were no paintings- only carvings. First we visited the Kailash temple- declared by UNESCO as a world heritage site.

The Kailash temple is a monolithic structure as well, but there is a difference between it and the caves. There are two types of monolithic structures; ‘cut in’ monolithic is when rock is cut from front to back, like the caves. But the temple is ‘cut out’ monolithic, which is when the rock is cut from up to down! Basically, the temple used to be a mountain and the rock was taken out of the mountain from above. The rock that was left made up a chariot shaped temple.

The temple was amazing, and I still can’t believe that all of it is made out of one rock. The drainage system was quite interesting as well. It consisted of small tunnels that were open on the top. There was a slight concave curvature in the tunnels so the water flowed away from the temple. However, now the drains are no longer used.

We headed off to the caves. There are 12 Buddhist caves, 17 Hindu caves and 5 Jain caves. However, the guide told us that these figures are only of the caves that have been found.

The difference between the caves in Ajanta and Ellora was that in all the caves in Ajanta (except one), the Buddha is sitting in the Lotus position, while in Ellora, the Buddha is always sitting with his feet facing down, like how we usually sit on chairs.

After a quick lunch at a hotel called Kailash, we took a short ride to the Jain caves. There we learnt all the Jain beliefs and their unique eating habits and the reason why. Jains don’t eat potato because they believe that if they pluck out a potato from its roots, they kill the organisms living in the roots (when Jainism was formed, the theory that plants were alive was not yet proven).

We then took a short ride to the most awaited excursion of all- the Daulatabad fort. The Daulatabad fort is a remarkable fort that has never been conquered. You will soon find out the reason.

The fort is located on the top of a mountain. The mountain’s roads are very curvy, which make it difficult to coordinate a whole army and elephants. The gate has long and sharp poison coated spikes all over it. The following roads inside are zigzagged, so the army has to constantly halt and resume- enough for the defending army to shower them with volleys of arrows.

The leader will see the palace at the left side, but if he turns the army there, they will meet a dead end- another opportunity for the defenders to defend. The army will once again go through roads that demand regular sharp turns.

Whatever part of the army is left (most of the army would have been vanquished before here by being shot at or have boiling oil poured from above) will then sight the palace again, straight ahead, on another hill. However, to get to the hill, they have to cross a moat and another obstacle that they won’t be able to recognise from where they are situated.

From the other side of the moat, the defending army will once again attack. Many of the soldiers will fall into the moat and get eaten up by the man-eating crocodiles. IF somebody manages to get to the other side (which is very difficult, considering that the bridge would have been burnt off), they have the maze to face.

Bhool Bhulayiya is a maze that will definitely trick even the smartest soldiers. You enter and are greeted by screeches of the bats living in the darkness; so dark, you can’t see your own hand even if it’s right in front of your face.

The remaining army will spot a light, towards which they will move. There, the defenders are ready with pots of boiling oil. IF someone survives, they will move on where there are two staircases. One of them leads to the man-eating crocodiles’ habitat and the other continues. Once again, the path will split. If there is a small army left, they will split up and go in the two different directions. They will both meet again later on, where they will start to attack each other thinking that they are two different armies.

After they both find out that they are the same army, they continue in the path. They glimpse at a staircase, which will lead them to a chamber in which they will be welcomed by, once again, the hot oil and this time, a candle to accompany. When the remaining people hurriedly get out, they sight another light. Having had enough of this fort, they will decide to escape through it. They enter it- and slide down to the moat.

This is why the Daulatabad fort (Devigiri, as it used to be called) has never been conquered.

The fort also has the Chand minar, a victory tower. Chini mahal used to be a beautiful palace inside Devigiri, until a king turned it into a detention centre. Jami masjid, a mosque inside, was converted into a temple by a Hindu king who took over it after the previous Muslim king had moved away. It is now called Bharatmata Temple (India temple).

After this exhilarating expedition, while returning to the bus, we were given gloves and bags and everyone collected garbage that people had thoughtlessly thrown in the middle of the pathways and in the edges of the walls.

It was only three in the afternoon and we were to assemble at the hall at only seven, so we were given permission to go swimming in the pool. Everybody had a whale of a time playing a ball game in the water. After taking our showers in the rooms, we went for dinner.

But this night was not like the previous ones. This night, we got geared up for a quiz that was to take place before dinner. We all revised the information that we had learnt so far at Ajanta, Bibi ka Maqbara, Ellora and Daulatabad.

The groups waited anxiously for the quiz papers to be distributed to each group. Then, four groups who had the highest scores will proceed to the final round. I felt that this quiz was just to make us trust each other because in my group, each person was to learn in detail a certain topic that they had been assigned.

After finishing off the quiz sheet, they were marked by a group other than the ones who wrote. After the results were read out, the questioner declared the top four groups. My group was overjoyed when we were there as well.

Questions were asked one by one to each group and if they couldn’t answer it, it went on to the next. Points were awarded for correct answers, but they were also taken away for wrong answers, which compelled us to think.

The next round was the buzzer round, in which each group was given a whistle and they would have to blow it when they had the answer. Unfortunately, the whistle that we were given didn’t have a ball in it, so the resulting sound was just a mere squeak. I tried to make it louder by adding my own whistle, but it was still very low so when our group and another group whistled at the same time, only the other group was heard.

After the ‘game’ ended, medals were presented to each group. We earned a silver medal as we came second.

The quiz was followed by a disco, in which the whole grade danced themselves to rags, and then danced the rags to scraps. The whole grade was worn-out and drained by the time the disco ended at 11:30. Nobody had trouble sleeping that night!

Once again, the morning started with us freshening up and having breakfast. We were headed off to the Himroo shawl factory, in which we could buy handmade shawls and find out how they made them.

Once we reached, I was shocked by how little and modest the factory looked. The factory had been going on for countless generations now, but it was still a small shop in the road.

We were first taught how they made the fabric. I stared at the intricate designs in amazement at how they had woven the threads one by one. Just looking at the loom (the manual ‘machine’ that is used to weave cloth) made me feel dizzy because of the complicated levers and sophisticated pedals.

The shop was very crowded, not because there were people from outside the school there, but because the shop was so little that it was having trouble fitting fifty kids inside.

The owner was quite patient as he explained the prices of the uncountable unique shawls to all the children who were all waving different textiles at him.

I spotted a little corner that had hand woven pillow covers and wall hangings of monuments in Aurangabad and flowers. Beside the wall hangings, there were a few petite bags that could be slung on your shoulder and will be dangling on your waist.

After we finished buying all the beautiful crafts, we bid farewell to the shopkeepers and headed back to the hotel.

After having lunch, we were once again given a few hours of free time, half of which many people didn’t know what to do as everybody had packed all their things for the flight. We were going to take a flight back home so that we didn’t waste another day in bus.

After arriving at the airport, my chums and I had a fun game of atlas going. The plane ride was extremely short as Aurangabad is in Maharashtra itself.

In the plane I thought over a few things in my mind. This was my first trip from this school, being a new student. There was a contrast between my previous school trips and this trip.

The main difference was that in my old school trips we did more physical activities such as kayaking, sailing and trekking while here it was more of understanding and appreciating our culture and our heritage monuments. Also, in my old school trips, we used to go to deserted islands and rainforests while here we were going to a city buzzing with life.

My trip to Aurangabad was an extremely educative and fun experience that I will always remember with wonderful memories.

Aditya Krishnan

School Ecole Mondiale

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Routine ramblings blog: Luminous day flying and landing nowhere artsy!

Posted by writer | Posted in life, The blog is personal again | Posted on 25-06-2009

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day of the glimmering dawn

day of the glimmering dawn

 

On an early luminous morning, I rose with the gleaming clouds radiant with the globe of sun lit in the sky.

 

I got geared up to backpack for my tour to the city of Nawab’s (Hyderabad).

 

Well I was returning the same evening, so there was nothing to backpack really, but just thought it might add to my reader’s interest of something exciting that might be coming. Ahem!

 

As I completed with my calorie burning session for the day and drove to the Mumbai Airport I was already waiting for the day to end. Why, ‘coz I felt it was going to be a routine day assignment with zilch added to the learning kitty, so I thought.

 

Yet, the day went off smooth, with even few new learning’s added to the food for thought pool for the day.

 

I had ample time still left, so I wandered around the streets. As usual landed where I first start off or end up in most of the cities, at the Art museum.

 

I was close to Hyderabad Birla Museum center (Art center) and shockingly experienced the utterly un-courteous poorly maintained, staffed with sad and dark minded traditional non art valuing staff and suffocating, hot and humid interiors with no ventilation (No A/c  or fans were switched on even after asking / requesting).  It was undoubtedly the most awfully maintained Art Museum I have ever visited in my entire life.

 

Left the sad area, not so soon though and later landed in the nearby cool, calm and beautiful Birla garden and saw idols, and sculptures of Gods (Shiva / Nandi) and many others.

SHIVA Nandi

SHIVA Nandi

 

Finally I got my Meru and landed back at Hyderabad Airport and realized I was ONLY 3 ½ hours early than my reporting schedule.  Hmmmm, hungry, famished and extremely glad with the royal treatment received at the Birla Art museum (still could not get it out of my system especially since it was at an Art museum).

 

Anyways, I went to airport coffee shop and ordered myself a ‘cut the carb and fat down’ Italian Salad Sandwich with a Big Mug of Coffee. Had a relishing meal and got on board. I usually dislike flight food unless it’s Jet.

 

Luckily the Meru experience was comfortable throughout as I landed back home with few good learning and some bad experiences with a decent meal coupled with my very favourite Coffee.

 

The day was over as I rolled back under my Mickey Mouse sheet for a sound sleep unruffled and dozed off into the sweet arms of nidra.

 

 hey, needed to ramble something off my routine at least once in this blog… come on! What say?

 

Cheers

 

Long live Art and artists

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Influences in life.

Posted by anjeneyan | Posted in life, The blog is personal again | Posted on 15-06-2009

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Ananth’s blogon influences set me thinking on how the persons around us impact our thinking and behaviour. His blog was on the conscious impact of few persons around him. I felt that the impact on the sub conscious mind by our environment is worth thinking of.

 

Last year I attended a marriage in Chennai. My aunt (father’s younger sister) exclaimed that “you look like my brother in your present attire” or something to that effect. Instinctively, I felt flattered. Why should I feel so? My father, from the time I remember, looked his age and some more. He was severely short sighted, though tall, was stooping, had very less teeth, dark complexioned, with a furious temper and highly rigid opinion on several aspects of life. His was a hard act to follow.  But still, some of his achievements and decisions make us still look up to him and any resemblance-genetic or otherwise- gives us a sense of inner glow. This however comes with some of the turns and twists life takes and compels us look into the mirror and admit reality at least to ourselves.

 

In Indian context, the first influence is our parents. The first English alphabets and nursery rhyme was taught to me by my mother whose formal education stopped at primary school. Forty six years back, we had come to Mumbai from a small village in Kerala. We had to adjust to a metro life in a hurry. Learning a foreign language and rhyme (twinkle twinkle little star…) was the first step. I have a sentimental belief that since this was the only subject my mother taught me, I was always good at it.

 

How did our parents express their love to us or to each other? How many of us remember our parents smiling with a shy love or laughing wickedly over an adult joke said privately to each other? Did they hold each other in their arms and dance the way we saw in the movies of 60s? May be so. Did they do it in our presence? Never.  How did this lack of physical or public expression of love (an Indian trait) impact us? Well, most of us – at least in South India- are uncomfortable with a physical expression of love- even of the platonic variety- in public and may be even in private.

 

What is the situation today? Very difficult to say.  My belief is that today’s youth are caught between the example set by their parents and the peer pressure. What is the right thing to do? I feel that some amount of display of positive emotions strengthens relationships and establishes some bonding.

 

Peer pressure or friends or lack of it is the next strongest influence in any life. How would lack of peer pressure or friends influence a person? Like many shy persons, I found it difficult to create an easy going friendship with the group in which I was studying or working (hai-bye relationship). I did exactly what I felt like doing. Some of it succeeded due to several factors- some within and some beyond my control.  But the difficulty in creating an easy going “life of the party” kind of relationship remains.

 

Peer pressure come most obviously in the “science or commerce” kind of decisions post schooling. Most of such decisions are based not on what the boy or girl wants to do in life post education and how attractive that avenue is. Some years back I had asked my cousin (who is a medical doctor (MBBS)) why is there a craze for medical admission when the returns are not commensurate with the efforts- at least in India. He said that it was due to lack of real understanding of the profession and its pressures. Last week’s news article said that the application for medical admission has fallen significantly while demand for engineering admission has surged.  One classic example is the number of engineers who joined for IT related courses even when it was apparent that many of the industry leaders are from different streams of engineering and such streams offered good long term prospects.

 

There is a big board I see on the way to office every day. It says “To the world you might be one person; to one person you might be the entire world. So drive carefully.” I feel this poignantly states our relationship with those we love very much- spouse, children, parents, siblings etc. Whenever we wear a new dress, after examining the image on the mirror, we go to our spouse and ask hesitantly ‘do I look handsome?’ A small smile of appreciation, a tart comment makes our day. I say to myself- I certainly look handsome in this shirt. I sometimes think that even Manmohan Singh or Sonia Gandhi must be asking their family members about their appearance before stepping into public gaze. This is only a small example how our spouse and/or family members appreciation matters to each person.  Family support is a great strength of Indian way of life and gives an anchor for our life.

 

Do parents listen to their children?  Yes, they do; especially when children start growing up and express their opinions.  The external environment has changed and is changing so rapidly that only highly self opinionated parents will disregard the views emanating from their children. If we have to keep communication lines open with them, we have to listen, but not necessarily agree with them and provide an adult feedback. Does this influence us? Yes it does. How does it influence us? Not easy to say. But their love and appreciation of our achievements and forgiveness of our failings matters a lot to us- at least to me.

 

Lastly religion, religious beliefs, practices, rituals and the whole baggage that comes with it. These are so intensely personal that they are hard to pin down or express in a logical or coherent manner. It matters to us hugely. Even lack of belief in all these things matters hugely.  Here again the dominating influence is our parents. We observe them and then decide consciously or unconsciously as to what we should do.

 

I have not touched up on the influence of our life in service as that deserves another blog.

 

So who influenced you? Why don’t you look at your parent and start wondering how they have influenced you?

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Bringing up children

Posted by anjeneyan | Posted in life | Posted on 03-05-2009

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Bringing up children: Part 1: The Journey Begins:
 

Bringing Up Children

Bringing Up Children

 

 

Every union should produce results. Progeny is one of the results of marriage- at least an expected result. Every newly married couple face overt or covert questions about their “plans”. Any delay beyond 3 years causes great consternation to the families of the couple first and then finally to the couple. All this creates a psychological need to have a child or children.

 

The initial clarity during the mating period of waiting for few years, settling in respective careers, purchase of dwelling etc. may have been achieved or could be in process. But now the need for a child becomes supreme. The conception takes place. I have a vague impression that women do have hesitation or some apprehensions about the entire pregnancy and delivery process. Most males disregard these apprehensions and the emotional and psychological coercion is enough for the women to cross this hurdle. The child arrives. Respective in laws troop in with broad smiles and a realisation of being grand parents.

 

Those who become grand parents before reaching the age of 60, mentally tell themselves that “we are like students who pass CA or IIT Entrance in first attempt while others who still troop to school with their children or run around for admissions to colleges are slow starters. But we are young grandparents. Old age associated with the status of being grandparents is not applicable to us”. Mothers are conferred an almost divine status in India.

 

One story I heard in justification of this status is something like this. One young student questioned placing mother first in the statement “Mata, pita, guru, deivam.”

 

The guru who was smart delayed the reply. After a few days, the guru asked the student to take a brick, tie it around his waist and go to the well and fetch water several times. The well was obviously at some distance. After the student got exhausted, the guru informed the student that a pregnant mother carries the child similarly for nine months and hence they get this status.

A typical Indian story which justifies the age old statement. Western civilisation has not placed such exalted status on parents. Probably they are seen as the medium thru which the life is created on the earth and the medium is like a vessel we use for cooking. The food is more important than the vessel. The mother now gets to see the life which was floating around in her belly. She is initially wonder struck. Then the awareness sinks in about her primary responsibility. Feeding a child at 12.30 am or 4 am is not something any human being can get excited about for weeks and months. The excitement of working as an executive in an air conditioned office is more palpable than cleaning a baby who will learn sanitary habits after some years. She wonders “God, why does any one say all this is exciting?”. The situation of Indians who have emigrated to middle east or USA etc. is even more difficult. These countries have strict laws for child care. Some countries insist on full time attendant till one year of age (this is what I understand).

The role of father at this stage is crucial. Few have any prior experience. They are forced to learn by trial and error. Many families erroneously do not educate their sons to be aware of basic domestic chores. So they land up in family life without any knowledge of the drudgery involved in maintaining a house in a nuclear family. I believe that it is at this stage the next foundation of family life is laid. Couple who work together (whether both are employed or only one is employed) and share responsibilities build a stronger edifice of their marriage.

The children watch and instinctively understand how their family lives and adapt accordingly. If the responsibilities get shifted to outside family members like in-laws or servants, then the pattern changes. We see distorted behaviour from the children.  Excessive tantrums, need to seek attention of one or both the parents whenever they are present, inability to mix or be comfortable in a large group are some of the visible external symptoms. I cannot claim any memory of my two children’s early years. It all seems to be a blur now. When I watch my grandson grow, I feel a twinge of regret at not noticing and storing these memories at least in the brain. Cameras were expensive then and so there are few photos of those times.

Now Picasa contains a few hundred or thousand photos of various antics of my grand son. Most mothers would tell you that the first three years of the child are difficult but rewarding. Creation of life and its growth is still one of the greatest wonder in this world. The efforts we put in these early years yield visible results.

The exuberance of the child, its curiosity in exploring the world around it, lack of any fear or knowledge of danger gives the greatest pleasure. One of the memorable photos of my grandson (when he was less than a year) is his smile when he turns around to look at me before trying to pluck the AC plug from the socket. Today’s world does not give any educated person the time or privilege to think on such things.

Success brings its own material rewards and satisfaction. It requires great courage to step aside from such a path to enjoy such pleasures. Children demand lot of emotional attention. Our city life drains out our quota of Emotional Quotient leaving little for our family. This is where the distance with children/family starts building up.

 

                                          

Bringing up Children – Part 2: When do children grow up?

Perhaps when they start asking questions about the life we lead. Children consciously or unconsciously imitate parents in the early stages. At some point they question us- do we have to pray everyday? Do we have to write homework at 7.30 every day?

Cant’ we have the toy or something else his or her friend has? Slowly we have to set the boundaries within which we have to live. How does a parent explain that they cannot afford a particular expense as it is beyond them? I remember such a situation when my daughter asked for legitimate expense and I could not afford it at that time. I do not think I gave a correct answer. There is always a debate between quality time and quantity time devoted to children. In a traditional family, the father went to office to make a living and mother looked after the hearth. So father’s time was quality time. Children’s bondage with father was perhaps limited due to the then prevailing environment. This is evident from some of the movies we see of the 60s and 70s in any Indian language.

Today, with both parents employed in many cases, the distance or closeness could be the same. My belief is that children react well to a relationship where the parents are capable of receiving the confidences of their children. They should trust their parents sufficiently enough to exchange their innermost fears and receive emotional and physical support.

This is more easily said than done. This requires a long period of communication at a seemingly equal level without losing the basic authority as parents. Today’s parents do assist in homework, projects, exams and other burdens of today’s schooling process. Do they gain their children’s confidence in this process is a moot point. I saw one TV Debate program on parent’s involvement in their children post school education- Science or commerce, engineering or medicine and so on.

The program had parents and children on opposite sides of the debate. The vehemence of the children on the negative influence of parents on compelling choice of the education stream was quite an eye opener. The education expert – a college principal- said that we should trust over children with the choice they make and not second guess them. They generally know what they want and we should guide them only when they start expressing their doubts or seek help.

My wife has an interesting view on how teenagers and young adults fall in love. She says that when the children lack emotional support or live in an emotional vacuum in the house, they seek an alternative outside the house. This is how love develops. In many cases, this seems to be true. I have seen children whose parents live in a different era and perhaps are not able to relate to their children’s emotional demands. Parents live in an orthodox yesterday era- where passbooks are reconciled on monthly basis, eating out should be out sheer necessity, new dresses are purchased for birthday,  Deepavali and school re-opening.

Marriage anniversary means visit to the nearby temple and then going to office. For children, Mcdonald is a fashion statement to be made, Coffee Day is THE PLACE to be seen wearing a jeans and latest tops with members of opposite sex. Spending a few hundred rupees on such an outing is normal. Would we have spent the equivalent of Rs 450 for our birthday party (what is party by the way?) say 35 years or 25 years back? I am told this is quite normal today. Cafe Coffee Day is the place for a small birth day party- the Cappucino costs not less than Rs. 30 or Rs. 35 per cup.

It is in such environment that love blossoms. If not love, at least rebellion against the ESTABLISHMENT. Long hair, awful looking half pants or three quarter pants, odd upper garments, skin hugging dresses which give quite the opposite message of the person’s character ( an otherwise timid person may look like today’s starlet in some youth oriented movie).  Is falling in love wrong ? (QSQT with Aamir Khan and Juhi Chawla or Jane tu with Imran Khan to quote a more modern example).

No, love is a beautiful emotion without which life is not worth living. But falling in love at the age of 18 or 21 seems premature- especially in Indian context. Everything is a struggle here- unlike abroad. Choice of educational stream, admissions, quality of teaching, post graduate education, employment, choice of city or town or metro for employment, accommodation, transport- basic things in life which are taken for granted abroad, pose insurmountable problems for most young adults. Love seems to be a needless distraction in such an environment.

Take admission for engineering, Medicine or any other such professional courses as an example. Each State has got its own peculiarity. Every year there is some litigation to arrest or mar the admission process at the penultimate stage. There is some Government subsidy for such education, but there is something called private college also. In such an environment, the parent struggles to meet their children’s expectations, their own economic strength or lack of it and matching their children’s marks with that of the demands of the educational institution. In such a situation, when a parent hears about a love affair (of anyone else) then there is genuine astonishment on how does anyone get time or energy to get involved in such activities at such an young age.

Lastly, do children who have become full fledged adults (crossed the age of 25 in my belief) need or expect our influence or emotional help. I think yes. But this line is thin. We cannot aggressively intrude into their emotional territory (“don’t be pakao”), nor can we be in an indifferent stranger’s domain. We need to understand the turmoil going through their brain and heart and respond sensitively. We have ourselves passed thru this stage -perhaps without much parental support. So it is easier to assess their needs and probe gently –like a doctor examining an open or an internal wound. It is not easy as now they are a closed book written in a foreign language (or like prayers we recite in Sanskrit- we understand the meaning in a limited manner).

For eg. what do we tell a married son or daughter about the difficulties we face in a marriage? What do we tell about the screaming babies (see my earlier blog) and feeding them at 2 am in night and the support they can expect from their spouse? I often wonder about this. My feeling is that mothers are more forthright in these things and put the matter in a manner which would put their backs up. There would be grudging acceptance later.

I think it is a lifelong relationship. Children remain children for parents whatever be the age. When I used to come home late from office, my father, who was well into his 80s, would remain awake and pester my wife about when I would come. When I reached home, he would confirm that I have reached and then go to sleep. I could not then understand his anxiety. Today I understand it and want to tell him that I understand the deep love and affection that lay behind his non expressive demeanour. But for that I have to go to another world. Do you agree or disagree? Either way, do respond.

 

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OSCAR – Jai Ho!

Posted by blessedart | Posted in life | Posted on 23-02-2009

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Jai Ho, Jai Ho!

 

Come Home to the Oscars…. Or should I say… Oscars came home….

 

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Finally, Danny Boyle and A R Rahman bring the most coveted Oscars back into the streets of Mumbai.

 

This is the third win for an Indian at the Oscars. The first being, Bhanu Athaiya who won  for costume design in Richard Attenborough’s “Gandhi” made in 1983 and the second being, the legendary filmmaker Satyajit Ray who was awarded a lifetime achievement Oscar in 1992.

 

‘Slumdog Millionaire’ swept EIGHT OSCARS at the 81 st Academy Awards including Best Adapted Screenplay, Cinematography, Sound Mixing, Film Editing, Original Score, Original Song, Direction and Motion Picture.

 

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Rahman mesmerized the audience with ‘O Saya’ and ‘Jai Ho…’ the nominated songs from ‘Slumdog…’, as the nominees for Best Original Song were being announced. He came, he performed and he swept everyone away….

 

As the British director Danny Boyle walked in with his cast of Slumdog Millionaire family down the red carpet, all the nine cast members, who played the three main characters in the rags-to-riches magical fable, seemed to further race the hearts of millions of Indians watching all over. There were superstars Anil Kapoor and Irfan Khan also beaming with pride and joy.

 

Most importantly there were the two young cast members, who still live in Mumbai’s slums, making it very special for each and everyone at home in Mumbai.

 

The movie fetched Danny Boyle the Best Director award, Simon Beaufoy best Adapted Screenplay and Anthony Dod Mantle the best Cinematography award. The film was also awarded for Best Editing.

 

Rahman in his acceptance speech after bagging the Original Score Oscar, made LA sound like Mumbai with the legendary dialogue, ‘Mere pass Ma hai’ which means even if I have got nothing I have my mother here. I want to thank her for coming all the way to support me,”

 

The Gulzar and Rahman composed Lyrics “Jai Ho” won the Best Song.

 

Resul Pookutty, received the award for Best Sound Mixing with co-recordists Ian Tapp and Richard Pryke.

 

Also to further glorify this magical night, ‘Smile Pinki’, the tale of a Uttar Pradesh girl and her fight against the social stigma of a cleft-lip, won the Oscar award for Best Documentary (Short).  This film was Directed by the Emmy-award winning Megan Mylan.

 

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Let the glory continue……………..

 

 

Oscar Winners List: OSCAR Winners

 

Image Courtesy:

 

Oscar Logo Image: OSCARS

Slumdog: OSCARS

Smile Pinki: BBC

 

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Kala Ghoda Arts Festival 2009

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Kala Ghoda Arts Festival The 2009 Kala Ghoda Arts Festival will be on from 7th February to 15th February.

Gallery and pavement shows, exhibitions, literary events, film screenings, music concerts, dance performances, theatre shows, workshops, heritage walks, a food fiesta, and a buzzing street festival bring in audiences and participants from all over the city.

 The Schedule Of Kala Ghoda Arts Festival 2009 is as follows:

7th February, 2009

8th February, 2009

9th February, 2009

10th February, 2009

11th February, 2009

12th February, 2009

13th February, 2009

14th February, 2009

15th February, 2009

 

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